THIS LIST IS NO ALPHA-JERKS ALLOWED!! πΒ A few of my fellow readers have a special request, and I’m in!! It’s been asked for a few times in the past, but Ryan’s request a few days ago spurred me into serious action!
Yes, normally I’m more into the alpha-males, but I have fallen head-over-heels with a few of the gentler, patient and unrestrained loving heroes too! So it’s their time to shine, here!!
Ryan asks:
Hey Maryse,
I love your blog and I can’t tell you how many good books and authors i managed to suss out from all your lists.Β And a few genres that i didn’t know were missing in my life (reverse harem lol) π
But how about giving some love to the Beta heroes?Β The reliable heroes who have endless patience and just quietly sit back and let us find our own way?
Is it just me, because a lot of times, I find myself rooting for the secondary hero in shows and books more.Β Alphas are nice and all but betas make the best partners if you ask me π
But I’m always curious to know from fellow readers; how would they define alphas and betas? What would be the key differences between those and defining traits?
Do you know of any good books featuring great betas?
Stay safe and keep reading!
R
I’m with you, Ryan!
I’ve always squeeeeed over my favorite fictional alpha-males (despite them being outright alpha-jerks too). Those guys are fun and exciting and unpredictable and infuriating, throwing my emotions into a whirlwind. Which makes them fun… to read and experience. In books. Only and always in books. Yep. The kinds of hard core alphas I’ve loved are just waving all sorts of RED FLAGS. Toooooo much heartache potential and chaos for my real life, thank you very much! π
So I agree. A loving, patient, kind man is definitely a HUGE MUST in my real life (and lately, in my books, too. It seems I’ve mellowed with age π ). Very soothing to the soul.
In fact, I found this old conversation we had on exactly this subject!!
bev: Hey, Maryse?Β We were talking about Rβs love of a beta heroβ¦..and you should totally put out a call and make a list up. π
R. Renee: Iβm all over that!! But what exactly is a beta hero? Iβm assuming the opposite of an alpha? Boy next door? Who cares, a list for me sounds awesome lol π
bev: Uses the heroineβs name? Speaks in full sentences? Wears more than a Henley and jeansβ¦..though that is a good look?
Maryse:Β HEY bev!!!Β Whatchu got against Henleys and jeans?
bev: Absolutely nothing. Always makes me think of Tate Jackson.
Jan: Maryse we love our alphas and our special betas too. Thereβs a lot of love in our hearts to go around π
Maryse:Β Erβ¦ beta?Β What the heck is a beta?Β *snort*Β *says the alpha-hero lover that canβt see past her alpha-loving nose*
R. Renee: Good try Maryse!! But I know you love many of the same books I do that donβt have alphas! You must, I get all my recs from you!
I KID!! I KID!!! π I get it now, I truly do.
So this would be a GREAT IDEA for a list!Β I could have sworn I had one, but I don’t think I do now that I’ve searched.Β Here’s the closest I’ve found that we’ve made a list for:
- Reader Recommendations for “Shy Guy” Romance Books
- Reader Recommendations β Our Favorite Nerdy Book Characters
- Shy Heroes Category
So let’s start one right now! Any favorites to recommend?
Lulu: During these times I too am appreciating a love story that is less angst, more loveliness. The best romance book Iβve read lately has βall the feels.β It is called Atticus: A Womanβs Journey with the Worldβs Worst Behaved Dog by Sawyer Bennett. The title makes it sound bonkers, but is so great. I read 2 or 3 books a week and this one is up there for me.
Maryse: And MY favorite (which surprised me at the time how hard I fell for him – considering I was deep in my alpha-male search back then) is All Of You by Christina Lee. Here’s my book review.
Noelle: This book was sooo good! Bennett is one of my favorite heroes. Itβs really hard finding contemporary romance books with virgin heroes so I was so excited when I was reading this.
Maryse: Noelle you are so right. And no matter his βstatusβ he is sexy as heck!!!!!!! The PERFECT book boyfriend. Sexy, sweet, smart and sensuous.
Val: I just finished this. I started when I woke up and didnt stop. Couldnβt stop. So good. I havenβt met a guy I loved this much in a long time. Thanks for the recommendation. I didnβt want it to end. Except for I needed it to so I could resume my duties as mom to my kids. π
Jillian: I have just fallen in love with a new book boyfriend !!! Bennett is perfect ! I thought Iβd never find another Holder or Will from Colleen Hooverβs books but now they have strong competition!Β Your review is exactly what I was thinking and feeling Maryse ! Those kissing scenes β¦β¦ Wow !
Ryan: How about Easy by Tammara Webber? It gave me so much feels when i first read it.
Maryse: I LOVED THAT ONE!!! Here’s my review.
Missy: I recommend Easy by Tammara Webber and donβt read any spoilers. It really surprised me.
Danielle: Easy by Tammara Webber. Read this last year and still think about this book daily.
Tessa: The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher… Harry is, not sure if alpha, but more beta. That hero type. Heβs funny, irreverent, smart, both book and street, and kind of broken. Itβs not a romance series, itβs total Urban Fantasy, but there is tons to love about the book. There is a βlove interestβ per se, but the story doesnβt revolve around it at all. However, itβs got wizards, vampires, fae, werewolvesβ¦ just a whole slew of goodies. Each is more of a mystery, but with paranormal complications. I love the series, though Iβm on one I canβt seem to get past.
bev: Iβve read a few Dresden books, I need to pick that series up again.Β Definitely not an alpha romance type book.
Noelle: The Edge of Darkness by Melissa Andrea. π Sweet hero and strong heroine.
Jan: One of my fav book boyfriends could be called a beta. Luke the H of Heartless by Mary Balogh.Why is he a beta? Well, itβs a Georgian HR, and Luke has been living in fashionable Paris and likes to dress in all the beautiful regalia, and has even been known to use a fan LOL (much to the shock of the plebs in London!)
Heβs good-looking but not super tall and not all OTT muscled and alpha β not much taller than Anna, the h. And in a moving moment of deep emotion and grief in the book, he cries alone at his brotherβs grave. But heβs all man underneath everything. OMG even though I usually prefer the bossy alphas, Iβm in love with Luke in this book.
bev: Lol, itβs a trip the Georgian dress for men.Β I remember reading about Avon and his clothes and shoes. But nothing beta about Avon.Β Gah, I love him, lol
Jan: bev, Avon from These Old Shades. Yeah, no. Heβs never a beta is he? He loves his gorgeous clothes too, but heβs a magnificent alpha all the way. Another beloved book boyfriend of mineβ¦.. sighβ¦β¦β¦
R. Renee: Thanks Jan! Iβm looking into Heartless. Itβs $$$ and HR and I donβt know if Iβve ever read a true HR before!
Jan:Β R. I hope you read and love Heartless. *jumps up and down in excitement* Some of the beautiful moments in that book will always have a special place in my heart. The way Luke and Annaβs love grows and develops is so beautifully doneβ¦β¦
Jan: The H in Grace Grows is a super-sweetie and I guess not an alpha. Heβs a singer too. A serious young editor (Grace) falls for a sweetly eccentric singer-songwriter. I loved it
R. Renee: Downloaded a sample of Grace Grows. Found a paperback for under $5 new!
Jan: Grace Grows is a nice little read, too. …Yes it is different. Very sweet, I thought. And I liked that the H wasnβt mr. perfect, but still such a great guy. I think itβs the only book sheβs written π Iβd like to read more.
Tessa: OMG, I canβt believe I didnβt remember this. Georgina Kinkade series by Richelle Mead has such a sweet beta hero. R, I found a PNR book you might like!
R. Renee: Tessa curious about Richelle Mead. Checking that one out! Thanks!
Nay: count me in as another recommendation. I LOVED that series!!
bev:
- Carter from Nora Roberts Vision in White.
- Coen from Maybe Maby by Willow Aster.
- Levi from Rainbow Rowell’s Fangirl.
R. Renee:Β One clicked Tessa! Thanks! Fangirl is intriguingβ¦Β Thanks guys! π
Danielle: I just finished The Learning Hours: How to Date a Douchebag book, and it was everything Iβve been waiting for to get me out of my book slump! I loved Rhett so damn much!
Itβs a nice change to read a book where the male lead is the one who is insecure and vulnerable. I spent most of the book just wanting to reach out and hug him lol. I honestly just fell so in love with him and know you all will too.
Maryse: Oh YAY DANIELLE!!!!Β Iβm so in the mood for sweet heroes right now. And I LOVE how funny this author is.
Tessa: Danielle, wasnβt he the sweetest? I just wanted to hug him throughout the book. He was probably the sweetest hero Iβve ever read. π
Leslie M: Hmmmmβ¦.you guys are tempting me with the new How to Date a Douchebag book. But I didnt love the first oneβ¦..maybe I need to give series a second chance??
Tessa: I think youβll like this one far more, Leslie. The first one, he is a jerk. However, in this one, heβs sooooo sweet. Like, huge teddy bear sweet. *grins*
Angie H: Liz Croweβs βRealtyβ SERIESβ¦dang tiny phone keyboard Ground Floor is the first one and I liked the heroine as much or more than Sylvia Dayβs Eva Tramell! Sexy, sexy Alpha and Beta guys galore π Definitely kept me up for hours.
Ezinwanyi: Losing Hope. Not only is it my favorite cover, but Holden was such a sweet Hero and he made that book even better than book 1.
Mony:Β Oh yes, reading about a beta hero is wonderfulβ¦caring, hot, patient, hot, has your back, hot.Β I was asked fo choose my favourite book hero and funny enough it was a beta guy. (Jack Travis in first book on list)Β Itβs not to say that they donβt have some alpha goingβ¦ otherwise theyβd be wimps. π
- Smooth Talking Stranger (The Travis Family #3) by Lisa Kleypas
- Before Jamaica Lane (On Dublin Street #3) by Samantha Young
- Jock Rule (Jock Hard #2) by Sara Ney
- The Kiss Quotient (The Kiss Quotient #1) by Helen Hoang
- Somebody to Love (Gideonβs Cove #3) by Kristan Higgins
Wilder (The Wild Ones #3) by C.M. Owens
- Too Good to Be True by Kristan Higgins
- Beauty and the Mustache (Knitting in the City #4) by Penny Reid
Maryse: OH YES!!! So many here have recommended Smooth Talking Stranger (and also Wilder) SO often for various must-read reasons. YAY!!! Thank you Mony! π
During these times I too am appreciating a love story that is less angst, more loveliness. The best romance book I’ve read lately has “all the feels.” It is called Atticus: A Womanβs Journey with the Worldβs Worst Behaved Dog by Sawyer Bennett. The title makes it sound bonkers, but is so great. I read 2 or 3 books a week and this one is up there for me.
Thank you Lulu!! I’ll add it in. π
Oh yes, reading about a beta hero is wonderful…caring, hot, patient, hot, has your back, hot.
I was asked fo choose my favourite book hero and funny enough it was a beta guy. (Jack Travis in first book on list)
It’s not to say that they don’t have some alpha going…otherwise they’d be wimps. π
Smooth Talking Stranger (The Travis Family #3) by Lisa Kleypas
Before Jamaica Lane (On Dublin Street #3) by Samantha Young
Jock Rule (Jock Hard #2) by Sara Ney
The Kiss Quotient (The Kiss Quotient #1) by Helen Hoang
Somebody to Love (Gideon’s Cove #3) by Kristan Higgins
Wilder (The Wild Ones #3) by C.M. Owens
Too Good to Be True by Kristan Higgins
Beauty and the Mustache (Knitting in the City #4) by Penny Reid
OH YES!!! So many here have recommended Smooth Talking Stranger (and also Wilder) SO often for various must-read reasons. YAY!!! Thank you Mony! π